I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned it before, but the Gentleman Caller lives in Seattle. We’ve been friends for 7 years, so I knew him pretty well before we began dating. The distance didn’t freak me out…I knew he was worth it.
However, as much fun as we’ve been having, I’ve learned a few things, number one being:
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE FREAKING HARD!
We have great conversations and exchange thoughtful emails and have agreed that we can’t put too much pressure on visits for being perfect. I know some people who have done this successfully (and so does he), but I feel like there are still things we could do better.