Yesterday at church, we didn’t have a traditional Advent service. We didn’t sing a million carols, have reenactments of the Christmas story, light a candle on a wreath, or watch a children’s choir.
I realize that many of my thoughts on Advent are tied closely to how my childhood church celebrated, but it didn’t make yesterday’s message any less meaningful. If you’re not particularly religious, stick with me…
While the passage the pastor spoke from was Luke and was appropriately focused on why we celebrate Christmas, he chose a different tactic.
The focus of the message was peace…not just peace on earth, but peace for us all.
Sadly, during the holiday season, we get harried, cuckoo, become “competitive shoppers,” and get so busy that we tend to lash out at those closest to us. Americans (especially) get wrapped up in material things and keeping up with others. It’s sad, but often true.
We were challenged to think about Christmas differently this year, to spread peace, focus on what truly matters, and gentle our hearts.
We also took a moment to close our eyes and focus on our blessings…and instantly, I was overcome with gratefulness for the people in my life. And I decided right then and there, that it would be my touchstone during the craziness of the season.
Whenever I get caught up in the race, feel crankiness come upon me, get exhausted or overwhelmed this season, I’m going to remember that no matter what, in spite of the fact that my life isn’t as perfect as I’d like it to be, or when I look around the room on Christmas Eve and see my cousins with their spouses and children (something I still yearn for, but don’t have), when I have my party on the 23rd and I stuff my guests into my little place like sardines, when work gets crazy before my boss leaves for surgery for a month, I’m going to remember that I have an INCREDIBLE family and friends who sustain me and fill my life with joy and comfort…and that will bring me the peace I’ll have needed.
I hope you find a touchstone like that this season that brings you back to a place of peace when you need it, as well!
I came away from service with similar thoughts and feelings….. Incredible thankfulness for all that God has blessed me with. As you know, I too am still without a hubby and kids (also a deep yearning of mine), but it is impossible not to be filled with immeasurable gratitude for all that He has given to me and all that He has done in my life. Thankfulness and peace rock!
It’s amazing that a season that all began because of the birth of a baby who we term the Prince of Peace is anything but for most us. My trek to the mall on Sunday- where I stayed for approximately 10 minutes- was almost enough to send me into spastic fits. It’s no wonder with the “scene” we’ve created that the most wonderful time of the year brings out the worst in people.
I also don’t have some of the desires of my heart (a huz and some kiddies) but man I am so blessed and I’ll definitely join you in closing my eyes as many times as possible this season and focusing on the incredibly gift of Jesus and all of the blessings that I do have!